release: v4.8.20 secure chat tools — completed, fixed and polished

Completes the messaging controls from v4.8.14 and fixes the bug that made them
appear broken for recipients.

Fixed:
- Per-message metadata was silently dropped for recipients. NotificationIntegration
  wrapped onMessage and deliverMessageToUI with 2-arg shims that called the
  originals without the 3rd argument (meta); with notifications enabled, view-once,
  disappearing timers and unsend all failed on the receiving side. Both wrappers
  now forward all arguments. Added tests/notification-meta-forwarding.test.mjs.
- Chat would not open after SAS: composer props were threaded into the wrong
  component (EnhancedConnectionSetup vs EnhancedChatInterface) -> ReferenceError
  nowTick on the verified re-render. Props moved to the chat component.

Changed:
- Code blocks: lightweight dependency-free syntax highlighting via React nodes
  (no innerHTML/remote scripts); code mode expands the input; copy auto-clears
  the clipboard after ~30s.
- View-once: configurable visible-after-open time (5s/15s/30s/1m) via meta.onceTtl.
- Disappearing timer: duration picker (Off/30s/5m/1h) instead of click-cycling.
- Composer toolbar moved next to "Send files"; borderless buttons, brand-orange
  active state; pickers open upward and are mobile-friendly.
- Sender bubble background lightened to rgba(249,115,22,0.05).

Removed:
- Panic wipe button (disconnect already wipes keys and clears session state).

Transport unchanged: per-message metadata travels inside the encrypted envelope,
whitelisted/bounded by _sanitizeMessageMeta. Full suite: 19 files, all passing.
Docs (README, CHANGELOG) updated; version bumped to 4.8.20.

package.json

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 {
   "name": "securebit-chat",
-  "version": "4.8.15",
+  "version": "4.8.20",
   "description": "Secure P2P Communication Application with End-to-End Encryption",
   "main": "index.html",
   "scripts": {
@@ -11,7 +11,7 @@
     "dev": "npm run build && python -m http.server 8000",
     "watch": "npx tailwindcss -i src/styles/tw-input.css -o assets/tailwind.css --watch",
     "serve": "npx http-server -p 8000",
-    "test": "node tests/sas-verification.test.mjs && node tests/file-transfer-consent.test.mjs && node tests/incoming-message-sanitization.test.mjs && node tests/outgoing-message-integrity.test.mjs && node tests/secure-chat-features.test.mjs && node tests/file-type-allowlist.test.mjs && node tests/webrtc-privacy-mode.test.mjs && node tests/indexeddb-metadata-encryption.test.mjs && node tests/disconnect-cleanup.test.mjs && node tests/timer-lifecycle.test.mjs && node tests/file-transfer-cleanup.test.mjs && node tests/file-transfer-ui-cleanup.test.mjs && node tests/file-transfer-callback-propagation.test.mjs && node tests/debug-window-hooks.test.mjs && node tests/inbound-message-rate-limit.test.mjs && node tests/file-transfer-chunk-rate-limit.test.mjs && node tests/ice-servers-validation.test.mjs"
+    "test": "node tests/sas-verification.test.mjs && node tests/file-transfer-consent.test.mjs && node tests/incoming-message-sanitization.test.mjs && node tests/outgoing-message-integrity.test.mjs && node tests/secure-chat-features.test.mjs && node tests/notification-meta-forwarding.test.mjs && node tests/file-type-allowlist.test.mjs && node tests/webrtc-privacy-mode.test.mjs && node tests/indexeddb-metadata-encryption.test.mjs && node tests/disconnect-cleanup.test.mjs && node tests/timer-lifecycle.test.mjs && node tests/file-transfer-cleanup.test.mjs && node tests/file-transfer-ui-cleanup.test.mjs && node tests/file-transfer-callback-propagation.test.mjs && node tests/debug-window-hooks.test.mjs && node tests/inbound-message-rate-limit.test.mjs && node tests/file-transfer-chunk-rate-limit.test.mjs && node tests/ice-servers-validation.test.mjs"
   },
   "keywords": [
     "p2p",